“Isn’t it funny how day by day nothing changes but when you look back everything is different…” It is pretty amazing. But then it is perspective. Then and now… the distance traveled between. And reaction at the time. And introspection afterwards. And reflection after that. All of which warps our memories of events long after they have happened such that what really happened is not what we remember and as time goes on the memory is distorted even further by what others remember of that same event…. but we have still learned great wisdom from reflecting on it. We weave a great story looking backwards… often skipping the boring parts of day to day.